I had just moved into a new city and didn’t know anyone, but the thirst was real. I randomly searched find man nearby after a guy on Reddit mentioned it in a late-night post. It took me straight to a site that felt more raw and upfront than any app I’ve used. No bios, no fake pics, just dudes ready to meet. Within hours, I connected with a gym bro who lived two blocks away. We didn’t even pretend to be subtle. One message turned into nudes, and by evening, we were tangled on his couch.